You have to have one, right? Your 'happy place'. The place you go when the world seems to be caving in around you. The place you can escape the rigors of day-to-day life and just relax. Maybe it's a hike into the woods to a favorite waterfall. Or a cozy mountain cabin. Or a small sliver of beach not too far away.
Or maybe it's not that far at all, but a room in your house. Or even a little corner where you can kick back and read a book or listen to music. Whatever it is that helps you release the stress of the day.
I've had several of these over the years. My happy place seems to change depending on the demands of life, the age of the kids and all sorts of other factors.
In fact, I can be pretty happy anywhere. I've like people. I like trying new things. And I have to have light. As the kids have gotten more talkative (so since they hit age 3 and just wouldn't stop talking) I find myself craving silence too. Even though I know I should cherish these moment when they're talking to me, because there's bound to be a time in the not too distant future when I'll have to threaten them with the cat o' nines to get them to open up. But, sometimes, I just need to be alone with my thoughts.
So, I have a new writing nook. (Not the one above, though isn't it lovely?) It's removed from the main traffic areas of the house, but still accessible. No longer near the TV which seems to be on all the time (particularly if I'm otherwise occupied and unable to engage) and right in front of a big window which holds my antique cobalt bottle collection and several plants. I had visions of being able to light little tea light candles while I worked, but the cat has claimed a portion of the window for herself, so I don't see that happening anymore.
It's been a major redecorating project in order to create this little writing nook, but as I sit here this morning, watching the sunrise through that big gorgeous window, I couldn't be more pleased.
Tell me about your happy place!
I co-opted our seldom-used guest room a couple of decades ago for the same purpose, and I've been very happy about having done so ever since. But I do resent guests now!
ReplyDeleteI can only imagine! I'm already dreaming of taking over one of the boy's bedrooms (they're only 10 & 6!) so I can have a closed-door writing space...of course when they move out the need for the closed door decreased dramatically, doesn't it?
DeleteRemind me why I fell in love with the open floor plan of this house when we were looking... ;-)